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Three “C” Rule.
© Lev Dolgachov, Vadim Sova (well-known writers). Combined
competent experience on creating the necessary prerequisites and conditions for
seducing the best girls in the world.
Hello, buddy! We are pleased that you are reading this and
we are sure that this composition will reveal all important and helpful stuff
which will make you a hit with women and teach you to get a kick out of the
process.
Lev:
What on the whole has become the reason for writing this
text? There is a mistake constantly repeated with time by all classical pick-up
adherents. It consists in the following: people get sick of reiterating the
same scenario in different variations. They get fed up with it, it ceases being
an exciting art and a pick-upper comes to rather a disputable conclusion that
most women are very much alike so, there’s obviously no reason in changing one
for another knowing in advance what would come of it. We would like to simplify
the process, make it more variable, exciting and elegant opening for you new
sides of women’s beautiful and diversified nature. Is it possible? It is!
Let us recall what a classical pick-up is based upon. The
scheme is as follows: meeting a girl, breaking the stamp, getting her phone
number, a few days pause, first date – making her go crazy about you, date –
kiss, (date), date – sex, then keeping her as long as you need her. Yes, all
this sounds real tough and some time ago such a scheme seemed to be very speedy
and optimized to the maximum. But here we see a very grave discrepancy of
intentions and actions: a good-looking young man, the girl likes him Ok, we
wants her right now and at this point he realizes that if he wants to get her
for sure he must act according to the scheme and all its points which had been
tested and proved. But somehow he doesn’t feel like doing it.
What do we have here? A retired mythical guru. He knows
everything, he is good at it but he doesn’t want anything. Why? It’s simple – he
is uninterested. Another question arises – why is he uninterested? There goes
another answer – he lost his congruence. He used to be interested in scheme
pick-upping – now he ran out of gas and he just considers it inappropriate and
harmful to exceed its limits. And if at first he used to be looking for “the
one and only” woman and was going through each affair as through a romance,
it’s been quite a long time that he just wants that girl here and now, she
turns him on and he realizes that he doesn’t want her for some abstract
“relationship” but just for a good mutually-pleasant sex, which could be
repeated again and again making their meetings more interesting, exciting,
light and pleasant. But for some reason he has to behave as if he is giving her
hope for a “relationship”. Thus instead of just devoting himself to making love
to a beauty, first of all he has to screw her brain. Is it right? No, it isn’t.
Is it good? No, it’s not! Is it fare toward a good girl? It isn’t, gentlemen. Finally
he just gets out of liking what he does.
Is it curable? Easily! If you already feel like a
lady-killer what prevents you from becoming such? A much greater number of
women would prefer a wolf that used to be a cub, which in its turn pretended to
be a sheep and managed to master all the necessary skills and gain experience
in that capacity, than a wolf that’s covering himself shyly or lazily with a
shabby sheep’s clothing patched up in eighteen places. A congruent wolf is
obviously much more attractive than an incongruent wolf-cub or, if you like, a
sheep he is turning into because of this incongruity. If you want to be a
lady-killer, be it! As you sow you shall mow. As is seen at this approach, the
girls are ready to give you all you need and I’m not talking about some
mysterious free whores but about exactly the girls you used to take for a walk
to the parks and cafes, twisting their heads with your first kiss among autumn
leaves, making their hearts beat faster, getting high up to the sky and making
them as happy as you are. Was it easy for you to imagine that this very
innocent flower having put on her beret would have looked at you not timidly
and shyly but with a true sexual aggression? This is real, you just have to set
in tune with the girl and follow the rules I and Vadim are going to tell you
about. This is as easy as all works of genius. You used to have problems with
getting acquainted, remember? Then the answer “just come up and get acquainted”
to your question “how do I do it?” seemed a mockery and caused a scalding
insult and a desire to learn and to become. How do you do it now? I think you just
come up and get acquainted. Or I will take a risk and suppose that you are
choosing among those nice girls who are surrounding you. The more you have, the
more you get, this is an old truth but now your understanding of it is fuller,
isn’t it? Do you know what I mean? The Little Red Riding Hoods are attracted to
handsome wolves who like to play interesting games with girls and at the same
time wolves are absolutely safe in everything but one thing – you can
accidentally fall head over heels with them.
We are writing this to explain to you how you ought to do
it.
Vadim Sova: No matter which
words we would use to describe our conception of a real man’s behavior, no
matter what our principles and our styles of communication are, no matter what
we do, in any case we have desires. One of the most noble and right things to
desire is having an opportunity to meet with the best girls. In the given
research work Lev and I are going to analyze some elements of our own
experience in seducing girls, we will examine the basic success maxims and
offer you possible variants of successful strategies.
Lev: Now we are going to
look though the basic points of the so-called “lady-killer” strategy, which we
will need to meet with interesting, independent and self-confident girls who
know exactly what they want from life and from us and who can let themselves be
natural with us. I will tell you at once that this strategy doesn’t abolish
anything we used to work with. All the good and helpful stuff we inherited from
the classical pick-up school we have to preserve in ourselves to the full. It’s
not about the radical change of your representations, it’s about a very useful
broadening of your opportunities and means. So it’s not supposed to mean that
you have to become a lady-killer everywhere you go and try to strike them dumb
with your brashness.
Vadim Sova: There is a
simple sign helping you to indicate that you are communicating and behaving
correctly with people. This is your satisfaction from the process. Look at
charismatic people, successful orators, good actors, TV-hosts, look at just men
who are hits with women. The essential difference from other people – even
those who are in the same business but less successful – lies in a great deal
of SATISFACTION they get from what they are doing. They enjoy every word they
utter, every episode of communication. They just love what they do.
Lev: That’s exactly the way
we get a kick out of this remarkable co-authorship of two mighty Beer-drinkersJ. Ok, let’s
go on: I would like to note that just like any art that claims to be elegant
and somewhat courteous, the approach described below bears an imprint of
non-seriousness and a good humor and it works on a 100% only when the process
itself is important but not just a result. May be, the process here is even
more significant because it takes away your fear of getting “a slap in the
face” letting you enjoy every thing that you do, when from the very start your
communication becomes erotically tinctured in a positive way turning into,
figuratively speaking, a tantric practice where an orgasm would last for hours
transforming the strategy itself into a beautiful and pleasant game. In this
game everyone is a winner having multiple spiritual orgasms from the beginning
of the communication, which being interrupted at any stage leaves a
post-orgasmic taste in any case. And in this sense your satisfaction from a
well-constructed phrase, a playful look, an exciting touch, a slight contact of
your lips, caresses under your clothes, passionate kisses and a direct
intercourse may be considered absolutely equal. The point here is in constant
giving and getting even if it doesn’t end up with coition. So it’s not out of
place to mention here that in all such cases a spiritual orgasm would actually
be supplemented with the real mutual orgasm of the game participants where each
of them obviously win.
Vadim Sova: Here my dear
co-author has flown into a passion adding a certain element of eroticism to our
exceptionally scientific research, which witnesses of his heat and a deep sense
of humor. As we know these traits of a man’s character are very important at
seducing women.
Lev: Well, before I turn
myself on to a multiple orgasm, I’ll pass on to the clue cases which you should
stick to within a strategy like this in order to be able to keep on meeting
with interesting girls again and again. There are three aspects to be
considered. Each of them is very important. Let’s call them “Three “C” Rule”
for the sake of simplicity and elegancy. Here they are:
1. Congruency
2. Contraception
3. Confidentiality
Vadim Sova: These are
reasonable principles and they are really significant. If you follow them a
woman will be relieved from most of the objective obstacles restraining her
from intimacy with a man. I would call these factors more precisely: adequacy,
safety and confidentiality. But since “Three “C” rule” sounds more solidly than
some ASC or KGB or other letters then let it be “Three “C” rule”. The meaning is
not changing of that.
Lev: CONGRUENCY
The thing that is being discussed ever since the beginning
of the article. It stands for the full accordance of the outward representation
and your inner attitude. If right now inside yourself you are a wolf wanting to
play the game called “juicy sex” with Little Red Riding Hood then you don’t
behave like a granny with suspiciously large teeth – you behave like a wolf
wanting to play the game “juicy sex” with your Little Red Riding Hood.
Meaningly, the level of sexual aggression in your behavior is in congruence
with the level that you have inside yourself. This is a full and implicit
fulfillment of your desires. If during a conversation you feel like touching
the woman’s leg – you do it beautifully. If you want to pet her waist or breast
– you do it even more beautifully. You do all you want and it pleases you both.
Vadim Sova: You can touch
the woman’s leg, of course. Especially, if you want it so badly. But first of
all you have to care about making her want it, too. This is a primary man’s
duty – making a woman feel good and happy. Also if you are doing whatever you
want there is a sense in worrying about your own safety and the safety of the
people surrounding you. I don’t mean cowardice but just a reasonable safety so
that your actions wouldn’t cause a bad situation. I used to know a guy who
having got smashed enjoyed drumming with his fist the cars parked in the street
to make their alarm work. Perhaps, he did what he wanted to and if the girls
were around at that moment they did pay attention to him... obviously trying to
stop him. Yes, this is also a method to be noticed. But it’s quite an
uncomfortable method for other people. A man’s aggressive actions may not only
attract women’s attention but they may also dispose the other people against
him. In its turn such a situation might spoil his reputation and alienate him
from his male friends and the girls for whom, evidently, it was all done.
Lev: Yes, yes and yes again.
This is a mega-important point which should always be borne in mind not only
when you are meeting with women but all the time. Let me remind it to you once
again – you do it cheerfully, with all your heart and with a good sense of
humor. There is no such task as to “screw a chick”. You just want to have a
good time with that particular girl, starting from, say, touching her leg. And
when you want to touch it this should be not in the least important task for
you than spending a night with her. And then you satisfy your want at once,
incidentally, without focusing her attention on it or, on the contrary,
concentrating on it for the sake of creating a stronger desire within her. It’s
as if you are inviting her to play, fool around and tumble into bed. It’s very
important that you arouse an erotic feeling in her, create a sexual atmosphere
around you and we are not going to teach you this. If you can’t do it – leave
this point alone for some time and move on to the following ones. Otherwise you
will be punched instead. Don’t rush, your time will come. One of the
prerequisites of a high-speed congruous success is a skill and desire to give
rise to a sexual impulse in your partner in your unique way. We would like to
remind you here that this article is firstly addressed to those who had gone
through the “primary and secondary school” of seducing. And it can be regarded
by the beginners as an educational manual giving the most general purposes to
achieve the results we are discussing here. In this sense, taking the given
text for a direct instruction for exploitation, especially in the parts where
we write about “sex at once”, may have an effect similar to that of a man
wishing to become a rope-walker who’s trying to walk along the fine
fishing-line between two sky-scrapers. But the points about safety are supposed
to be applied by anyone who is aspiring to effective communication with women
and, generally, with all people.
Returning to congruence – on the whole, the concept of
congruence in this case implies a full congruence and a full “letting you do
whatever you want so that it pleases you both” with an obligatory maintenance
of the rule Vadim mentioned about the safety of the people surrounding you. The
things that are usually non-recommended and may bring you to negative results
become admissible, appropriate and even useful here. For instance, the
verbalization of “we are going to have an absolutely fantastic sex tonight!”
starts working fine if it’s being said congruently as only congruence is able
to give us a very powerful advantage in this strategy.
CONTRACEPTION
Many men dislike condoms. There are people who wouldn’t use
them in principle, noting fairly that the sensitiveness is different, and they
would only use them when the girl says “No, I’m afraid!” This is a harmful
position for a pick-upper because except for the well-known reasons like AIDS,
syphilis and other gonorrhea stuff, except for unwanted pregnancies there is
one more very important point. I would say it’s the most important in the given
case.
Vadim Sova: It’s very
important that the person should be in harmony with himself. Some spheres of
modern psychotherapy offer a certain technique of a man’s inner conflicts
regulation by way of coordinating the intentions of some parts of his
personality, like, the parts responsible for his job activity, satisfaction and
safety. One can accept this approach or not, however, in any case it’s becoming
obvious that successful pick-up strategies can be blocked by a man’s
subconsciousness for the purpose of his own safety. Only for this reason the man
wishing to be a successful pick-upper needs to learn to use condoms.
Lev: The main thing that
condoms can give us in the sphere of quick seducing is a woman’s trust. In view
of the approach we are examining here it’s quite obvious for the girl that this
is the man who often gets in close contacts with different women. Thus he is as
free as a bird. She would like to trust him but it’s a bit scary because of
where and with whom he meets. So we are solving the problem of being trusted
very easily if each time we are getting in contact of a certain sort we will
wear a condom. Then the girl can see that we care about her health. She
understands that with other girls we also wear condoms and she’s got nothing to
worry about. Just like that, easily and banally one small rubber thing can help
you to acquire trust and good attitude. This is an important instrument that we
have to use.
Vadim Sova: That’s right. In
addition to this, because we are not so much speaking about sex as about
seducing, I suggest that you should not only wear a condom but also let the
girl know beforehand about it. No, you are of course not supposed to say at
your first meeting: “My name is Bevis. I will wear a condom.” But the best idea
would be showing it accidentally in your purse when buying beer, for example.
The girl will surely pretend that she hasn’t notice anything. But I bet she
has. The masterly thing would be if she understands that it wasn’t your
accidental action but it had all been done on purpose as if by accident without
making her respond to this. Let her note for herself that you can be trusted.
A special case is seducing girls for a group sex. In this
case, informing them how you are going to protect them and yourself is to your
advantage. If only men knew how many wonderful lust scenes they had deprived
themselves of because of one thing – girls’ worries about the problem of protection!
Suppose a guy and two girls met. The girls like him... They are risky and brave
enough. They almost agree. But there is one “but”, one obstacle: “there can be a
problem with protection”. That’s it, it won’t happen! (They can name different
reasons but they will never confess that they are worried about the way one and
the same cock will be entering her and her girl friend with the same condom on.
It’s somewhat unsanitary! Dangerous. Sex is canceled.) It could have been
different if the guy had told them a story about his girlfriend bringing her
charming class-mate home with her and how they had been making love a trois
because he had found a big package of condoms and sisters would change them
every five minutes while they had been playing the game called “train”. I
simplified the story the girls can be told as a means of confirming the safety
of intimacy with you. I simplified it for you to be able to understand its
principles and afterward you can choose your own words for such a story, making
them milder and more appropriate for your own situation.
Lev:
CONFIDENTIALITY
“Long memory is more dangerous than syphilis, especially in
a narrow circle.” © Grebenshchikov.
“The first rule they taught us at secret service was
answering such questions “I don’t remember”. © Ronin
Are the epigraphs clear? We are talking about another sort
of safety. Lately a buddy pestered me with the question why the girl he had
talked into a photo session and then showed her photos to all his friends
didn’t want to sleep with him. In spite of my explanations he didn’t come to
understanding why it had happened so. And it so happened because he didn’t
understand the fundamental role of confidentiality as the main key to one’s
success. What’s prior to you – having fun with the best girls or trumpet at
every corner about where, when and with whom you are doing it? If it’s the
latter – you can start trumpeting without bothering yourself with having any
fun according to the rule “neighbors say – you repeat” but then you will never
get anything more than just talking. Why? It’s because you are getting
dangerous for a girl. She will have to pay for being seen with you – her
freedom, safety, reputation, family happiness – to get worries and trouble in
return. But if you love people, if you love women you must stick to a clear-cut
notion about “the secrecy of deposits”. Meeting with a girl is only about you
and her and it has nothing to do with all other people. Whatever is happening
between you two it should never be known to anyone else. And this is the aspect
of great importance for the girls. It bothers them. And they expect some kind
of verbalization about it from you. That’s why it’s very useful to let her know
from the start that no one will find out anything about your relationship from
you. You may say it straight. If she starts such a talk you should explain to
her in a most convincing way that confidentiality is your second name. You
certainly have to show it in practice and not just speak about it.
Vadim Sova: Every day
millions and millions of sexual intercourses in the whole world don’t happen
because a very important rule is misunderstood by most men. Poor enamored
youths turned down by their class-mates; cut veins of thousands guys rejected
by their girlfriends; unhappy business ladies crying for their loneliness –
this is the cost of such misunderstanding! The rule is simple: COMPLETE SECRECY
OF ANY INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP. For instance, no one will ever know from me the
way I was making sweet love to Anna Kurnikova in different positions because I
will never tell anyone about it. I’m talking about it now because it’s never
happened. If it had happened, I’d never have told about it. The same is with
your personal correspondence – you can never show even the fragments of the
letters addressed to you personally. This is the most important rule which will
surely turn against you if you break it.
What should you do when a girl asks you if you have
somebody else? What if she asks you this? Any reply can work against you. If
you say “no” then she might think you are some dork and the girls don’t want to
date with you. That sucks. Besides, if you are that kind you might stick to her
like a tick and then she won’t be able to get rid of you – you will be
pestering her with your love crap and stuff. It might become an obstacle to
make a closer acquaintance with her. If you say “yes, I do” these can be the
last words you’d say to her. She might reply “I don’t want to share a man with
someone else. You have a girlfriend, so date with her!” Or she might ask “Who
is this unlucky one?” Any answer you give might work against you.
Then what should you do? I’ll tell you! The only possible
way is to avoid the truth or make a joke of it. A friend of mine replies in
such cases: “I meet with a lot of nice and smart girls and I never tell anyone
anything about them. I won’t tell you either!” Another friend of mine answers
the question “Do you have a girlfriend?” like this: “I don’t remember really.
I’ve had four brain concussions. However I need only to enter a bar or walk
down the street and the girls would run up to me and then I tell them: “Stand
in the line, ladies!” Also one of the best variants to answer the question “Do
you have a girlfriend?” is to look deep into the girl’s eyes, grab her tenderly
by her ass and say: “Yeah, I think so! And a very pretty one and smart!”
Lev : Or, for example, say
to her looking into her eyes and stroking her ass: “I will soon, if she wants
it too. I wouldn’t mind it!” You got it, right?
So what do we get following “Three “C” rule”?
1. The girl knows that you are intended to
spend a hell of a good time with her in bed, that you want her, you are not
going to screw her brain because you prefer more suitable parts of her body,
you are inviting her to join you and make this want a mutual one.
2. The girl knows that she’s not threatened
with any kind of physical danger with you, be it an unwanted pregnancy or an
unpleasant disease. On the contrary, she understands that you are healthy, that
you care about her health and you do all to make her feel safe with you.
3. The girl knows that she is not
threatened with any other kind of danger because she realizes that you can be
trusted and she can do whatever she wants without worrying that someone will
know about it. You are reliable, you are the source of pleasure, who can be
fully trusted.
You are always fun to be with. She feels safe with you. You
are the one who can make her feel good! Now tell me, what more can a girl want
from a guy? We are not mentioning here that you are supposed to be a damn good
lover or that you should be able to arouse her interest in yourself. I will
repeat myself; this text is not for boy scouts, it is meant for the men who
already know how to deal with girls and just want to understand the essential
principles of the approach described above. The aspects discussed in the text
together with adding a sexual and intimate tincture to the process of your
communication will give you plenty of opportunities to spend a great time with
the girl you are crazy about right after your first meeting. The phone numbers
exchange usually takes place after sex if you both don’t mind getting to know
each other better. There’s a great deal of benefits and bonuses here – starting
from effective spending of your time resource, ending up with a pleasant
innovation: the girls will bring their friends to meet with such a nice young
man surprising you from time to time with such sweet little pranks like sex a
trois or some other exciting stuff. Many good girls need such a reliable and
safe “erotic friend” for an “easy relationship” with whom they could spend a
night. We love them, such girls, don’t we? Yes, we do. We want to make them feel
good, don’t we? Sure! Do we know how to do it? We not only know it but we are
good at it! That’s what they love us for and that’s why they date with us!
Vadim Sova: All written
above is just a small part of our experience on building comfortable and
pleasant relationships with the world surrounding us, and especially
relationships between a man and a woman. We are going to acquaint you with the
basic points and the structure of such relationships that’s why we are waiting
for your questions and letters.
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