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Sex without Love
A woman and man’s communication consists of
three components. Let’s call them sex, friendship and love.
A relationship can be called harmonious and
developing only in the presence of all three components. Thus an ideal
variant would be a cocktail mixed up in different proportions. Each
its own composition, quality and taste.
What’s “sex without love”? This is a relationship presuming
some intimacy as its basis. The main component in the cocktail is sex, almost
half of the mixture. But is it just sex? Have you ever happened to have sex
with the woman you didn’t really like very much or the one you didn’t like at
all? A 15 year old school-boy would say: “I like all women!” “How can it be?” –
would ask an 18 year old girl. Well, honey, you should know for sure how it is
“not to like very much”? It all depends. If it comes to the point when a woman
starts getting undressed there’s no other way out. Slipping away in such a case
would be equal to death because a woman never forgives this. That’s the way it
happens. So, did you really like it? But you did have an orgasm, didn’t you?
She wasn’t lying like a cold fish, she’d been doing all to help you! Your body
relaxed as usual. So what was that you didn’t like about it? You lacked
something, didn’t you? Yes, your body was satisfied. The woman was real enough,
soft and warm. But something was missing... what can you say about it after
1) “That was disgusting! I wasted my time!” So there was no
friendship. And there was no love. You would hardly get into a situation like
that another time. By the way, our precious little friends sometimes let us
skip the situation in a most unpleasant way. Due to your bad psychological
state they can just become quiet and never respond to a call-sign... I wish I’d
2) “Well, that was quite Ok... I did it!” There was no friendship.
But there was love. Love for your-darling-self. Oh, you such a sexual giant, a real
Casanova! Is the situation familiar? Why wasn’t there any friendship? You were people
with different social statuses. You are a scientist, she is a weaver. You are a
metal turner, she’s an artist. You had nothing to talk about. Different mentality,
life purposes and values. You had a contact with an ET from the Moon. Pray the Lord
that she gemmates. But what if she does not?! J
Let us leave these defective cases and suppose that you
rather like the girl than dislike her.
3) “Wow, she’s so foxy! I was lucky to sleep with such a
lady. We had a pretty good time together...” The wording “we” in the third
phrase and the acknowledgement of the partner’s merits in the first witness of
friendship and certain respect. Your behavior in bed must have been quite free
and relaxed. You came to it on mutual agreement, you wanted to relax and you
both were satisfied. But it was love for yourself – that’s what the second
phrase reveals. Such a relationship is quite acceptable but you both are not
completely satisfied and that’s too bad. It will last until one of you finds
another partner who would love him more or would be more loved. Here she is!
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4) “That was something! She’s lovely! She’s tender,
intelligent and attractive in all respects. Our last meeting was fantastic! I
can’t wait to meet with her again.” There is friendship here (“we” and showing
respect to her) and love (“she’s lovely!”). Love for a sweet clever and nice
woman. What’s of that if she’s not the only one who is sweet clever and nice?!
Would you want all the rest to be stupid, disgusting and ugly? Well, she wants
to be the one and only for you – its women nature! But you can’t change the
world because of that. Sorry, darling – this is life. Competition and natural
selection are the laws of nature. Make your choice and enjoy it!