Before we start speaking about how you can REALLY become successful and self-assured when meeting with women, you should first off learn a few seducer’s maxims, which are definitely to be applied to your life to change it forever… or at least to keep you from utter defeat!

To apply all these necessary commandments to your everyday routine you are sure to spend much time and efforts. But if you MANAGE to learn them or PRETEND that you believe in them life will suddenly prove to be so much easier!

By the way, if you think that these commandments work only in pick-up business, you are wrong. Using them in all spheres of activity will give you a significant positive effect. Ok, let’s start:

Pick upper’s first commandment.

(1) There’s nothing horrible in being a man, nothing bad in winning women’s hearts and seducing them. I’m not going to try and whitewash myself or find some excuses for what I know is natural for me. I have an absolute right to do this. I hope I have made myself clear!

Pick upper’s second commandment.

Nobody’s 100% insured against bad luck. Our fortune comes and goes and it never depends on us. What I’m driving at is when a girl turns you down her reasons maybe quite simple and may not be related to you personally. She might have torn her stockings and feels terrible about it. Or she might possibly have had a bad day. Or… she’s just not what you need! So the second commandment will sound like this:

(2) Nobody’s 100% insured against bad luck, but your ill fortune is not a reason for getting upset, it’s an unprecedented opportunity to profit by your own mistakes.

Pick-upper’s third commandment.

It runs:

(3) You enjoy chatting with girls, seducing and pick-upping them. If the process itself doesn’t bring you satisfaction you might be doing something wrong.

This is the easiest and most reliable way to keep in touch with yourself. If you feel uneasy when being with a woman and have to invent what to say and to do, it means you’ve taken the wrong path. In this case you need some more learning and training.

If everything goes easily and naturally, if there is no need to think of what to do in the next moment – it means you are doing exactly what you SHOULD!

Pick-upper’s fourth commandment.

It’s the shortest one:

(4) More flexibility!

Be flexible and creative! Improvise! Although what I suggest is just a few effective behavior templates instead of the old ones you have been using. But still these are only templates. However, they are as effective as a nuclear bomb if you do it right. Believe me, the real success can be achieved only with a bit of improvisation. You combine different methods managing to maneuver between them like an experienced sailor. At some point you catch yourself at the thought that the methods you use seem to come as naturally as your breath. 

Pick-upper’s fifth commandment.

(5) This world is a friendly place. He who searches always finds. Every one of us possesses all needful qualities to be a success.

Speaking about women it’s clear that anyone can be a success with them. Any guy has got that something which could be helpful in this peculiar business. Recalling the most famous women-lovers what can we say? Neither Don Juan, nor Casanova had been too handsome or too rich. They just knew how to deal with a woman and could use all their strong and weak points to win her heart. Even their physical defects were for their benefit, for instance, they could arouse sympathy and pity.

However, this commandment is very close to the fourth one as the true flexibility would also imply profiting by your weak points.

So, here are pick-upper’s five commandments:

(1) There’s nothing horrible in being a man, nothing bad in winning women’s hearts and seducing them. I’m not going to try and whitewash myself or find some excuses for what I know is natural for me. I have an absolute right to do this. I hope I have made myself clear!

(2) Nobody’s 100% insured against bad luck, but your ill fortune is not a reason for getting upset, it’s an unprecedented opportunity to profit by your own mistakes.

(3) You enjoy chatting with girls, seducing and picking them up. If the process itself doesn’t bring you satisfaction you might be doing something wrong.

(4) More flexibility!

(5) This world is a friendly place. He who searches always finds. Every one of us possesses all needful qualities to be a success.

Q: But how do I apply all these commandments to my everyday life to make it more successful?

A: Remember them for a start. Repeat them to yourself. Read them at least once a day. Think of their beauty and logic. At the same time you should take into consideration that you are learning both consciously and subconsciously, that every time you repeat them the knowledge gets deeper and deeper into your so-called “subconscious competence”. Then suddenly you’ll realize that you don’t only remember them but you live according to these commandments. And then you’ll see how wonderful your life has become!